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Your Trustee Decision Will Shape Your Legacy More Than Any Gift

Mr. Sonaar — Mon, 16 Feb 2026 18:00:00 +0000

We dig into why trustee selection shapes a legacy more than any gift, and how picking for capability over tradition protects both assets and relationships. We explain the job, common mistakes, the case for a single or professional trustee, and practical questions to guide the choice.

• why the trustee role is a real job with legal duties
• what trustees do across assets, bills, taxes, and reports
• where discretion matters on homes and investments
• why birth order and sentiment are poor selection criteria
• traits that define a capable, trusted decision‑maker
• single trustee clarity versus co‑trustee conflict risk
• how professional trustees bring neutrality and continuity
• cost context and how pros reduce delays and disputes
• hybrid models to blend family insight with expert process
• key questions to vet willingness, respect, and competence
• planning steps that preserve peace and deliver intent

We would love to work with you. Contact Generations Legal Group in Bentonville, Arkansas at 479-601 or visit generationsleegalgroup.com

For more resources, detailed show notes, and expert advice, visit www.answersonagingpodcast.com

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Married, Money, And Medicaid – You Can Keep Almost Everything

Mr. Sonaar — Mon, 16 Feb 2026 18:00:00 +0000

We walk through how marriage affects Medicaid eligibility, what assets count, and how to protect savings when one spouse needs nursing home care. We clear up myths, explain the must-have documents, and show how to use the rules without going broke.

• marriage treated as one financial unit for Medicaid
• cost of nursing homes and income protections for the community spouse
• what counts as a non-countable asset in Arkansas
• why beneficiary designations outrun wills
• myths about separate accounts, prenups, and divorce
• crisis tools like Medicaid-qualifying annuities
• pre-planning with irrevocable trusts and timelines
• essential powers of attorney and health care decisions
• blended family dynamics and clear communication
• when to consult an elder law attorney and why timing matters

Call us at the office at 479-6014
For more resources, detailed show notes, and expert advice on the many facets of aging, don't forget to visit our website at www.answersonaging podcast.com
Please, please, please give us a call. Let us help you through that, and we would be honored

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Stop Paying The Nursing Home Bill Now

Mr. Sonaar — Mon, 16 Feb 2026 18:00:00 +0000

We break down how Medicaid actually works for long-term care, why Medicare ends after short-term rehab, and how singles and married couples can protect assets without sacrificing choice or quality. We share common mistakes, key legal tools, and the steps to stop unnecessary private pay.

• Medicaid built to protect the middle class
• Difference between Medicare rehab and long-term care
• True cost of nursing homes and private pay risk
• Non-countable assets for singles in Arkansas
• Power of attorney gifting authority as a must-have
• Spousal protections that preserve assets and income
• Timing strategies for crisis and pre-planning
• Why nursing homes and agencies don’t guide planning
• How an elder law attorney applies the rules
• Concrete next steps to assess eligibility and apply

“Please get this to anyone you know who is private paying for a nursing home bill so they can stop the bleeding and protect their estate.”
“We are Generations Legal Group — call 479-601-4119 or visit GenerationsLegalGroup.com.”
“For more resources and show notes, visit www.answersonagingpodcast.com.”

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Protecting Your Parents’ Estate From Predatory Spouses

Mr. Sonaar — Mon, 07 Apr 2025 18:00:00 +0000

Predatory marriages target vulnerable seniors for financial gain, creating devastating legal and emotional consequences for families and overriding existing estate plans.

• Significant age gaps between partners serve as a major red flag
• Marriage automatically creates inheritance rights that can trump wills and trusts
• Common scenarios include caregivers or younger partners isolating seniors from family
• Cognitive decline creates heightened vulnerability to manipulation
• Adding a new spouse to bank accounts can happen without legal oversight
• Attorney-backed documents provide crucial protection through professional testimony
• Online DIY legal documents typically fail to provide adequate protection
• Families must stay vigilant when older relatives form new relationships late in life
• Early comprehensive planning creates the strongest defense against exploitation
• Regular family involvement helps prevent isolation and manipulation

If you need help with this issue, you can contact our office at 479-601-4119.

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Beyond the Firstborn: Rethinking Traditional Trustee Selection Logic

Mr. Sonaar — Tue, 18 Mar 2025 15:00:00 +0000

Todd Whatley deepens his exploration of trust issues with an essential, often overlooked aspect of trust creation: trustee selection. He explains why choosing the right trustee is crucial and provides practical guidance on qualities to look for, common mistakes to avoid, and when to consider professional trustees.

• Trustees have significant responsibilities including asset management, compliance with trust terms, fair distribution, and handling administrative tasks
• Good trustees need financial acumen, organizational skills, integrity, trustworthiness, and strong communication abilities
• Commercial trustees are often worth considering as they're trained, licensed, bonded, and can handle the full-time job requirements
• Common mistakes include choosing family members without proper qualifications and selecting unavailable or disinterested trustees
• Co-trustees offer benefits like shared responsibility but can create conflicts and slower decision-making processes
• Special situations like special needs trusts, charitable trusts, and Medicaid planning require specialized trustee knowledge
• Education is key—attorneys should spend time explaining trustee responsibilities and options to differentiate themselves from non-attorney trust providers

Schedule a call at theelderlawcoach.com to explore how coaching can help grow your elder law practice. Todd promises honest assessment of readiness and fit for his program.

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Trust Management Made Simple: Avoiding Common Mistakes

Mr. Sonaar — Mon, 17 Mar 2025 20:00:00 +0000

Attorney Todd Whatley addresses the critical components of trust management and highlights common trust mistakes that attorneys should help clients avoid. He provides insight into how elder law attorneys can differentiate themselves from DIY solutions and financial advisors attempting to provide estate planning.

• DIY estate planning services and financial advisors are aggressively targeting clients, claiming lawyers aren't necessary
• Trust documents need specialized language to handle incapacity periods before death, not just asset transfers after death
• Testamentary trusts provide significant protection from bankruptcy, divorce, and lawsuits for beneficiaries
• The biggest mistake in trust planning is failure to fund the trust by properly titling assets
• Multiple co-trustees often create family conflict; consider recommending corporate trustees instead
• Careful trustee selection is critical for proper trust administration
• Trustees have fiduciary duties and should maintain detailed records and communication
• Attorneys should avoid amending other professionals' trust documents due to malpractice concerns
• Regular trust reviews (every five years) are essential as family situations and laws change

For more information about Todd's elder law coaching services, visit theelderlawcoach.com to schedule a free consultation call.

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Why Powers of Attorney Are Non-Negotiable for Your Future

Mr. Sonaar — Tue, 25 Feb 2025 13:00:00 +0000

Understanding the significance of Powers of Attorney (POA) is crucial for anyone planning for the future. Legal expert Todd Whatley leads our discussion on why establishing a POA is a must-have for every adult, emphasizing the role it plays in protecting your interests and easing family burdens during times of uncertainty and incapacity.

• Definition of Power of Attorney and its importance
• Types: Financial and healthcare POA explanations
• Consequences of inaction: guardianship risks highlighted
• Common misconceptions about POAs debunked
• Selecting the right agent: trust and duties explained
• Recommendations for developing a comprehensive POA
• Call to action: Create or review your POA today for peace of mind

Please call the office 479-601-4119 or go to generationslegalgroup.com for assistance in getting your Power of Attorney completed.

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The Critical Role of Powers of Attorney for Everyone Over 18

Mr. Sonaar — Thu, 20 Feb 2025 17:00:00 +0000

Powers of attorney are essential legal documents that ensure your healthcare and financial decisions are made by someone you trust during times of incapacity. This episode discusses the types of powers of attorney, the importance of selecting your agent, and why comprehensive documents can prevent the hardships of guardianship.

• Explanation of powers of attorney: financial and healthcare
• Consequences of not having a power of attorney
• Benefits of choosing a trusted agent
• The pitfalls of springing powers of attorney
• Importance of having comprehensive powers of attorney
• Misconceptions about needing a power of attorney
• How to get started on creating a power of attorney

If you haven’t done your power of attorney, please call the office 479-601-4119. Or you can go to generationslegalgroup.com and there is a schedule button there.

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Insights to Personal Care with Teresa Mills from Circle of Life Personal Care

Mr. Sonaar — Fri, 14 Feb 2025 15:00:00 +0000

Personal care services provide vital support for families facing the challenges of aging. We explore the offerings of Circle of Life Personal Care and the emotional and practical benefits of hiring help, emphasizing that everyone deserves quality care.

• Importance of personal care services in aging
• Circle of Life's background and service offerings
• Differences between personal care and hospice care
• Screening and hiring practices for caregivers
• Payment options for personal care services
• Recognizing signs for needing personal care
• Emotional benefits of investing in caregiving support
• Circle of Life's nonprofit model and community reach
• Call for listeners to explore personal care options

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Ultimate Family Organization: A visit with Trustworthy CEO Nathanial Robinson

Mr. Sonaar — Sat, 01 Feb 2025 17:00:00 +0000

Unlock the secrets of seamless family organization and heightened preparedness with our special guest, Nat Robinson, the visionary behind Trustworthy. This episode casts a spotlight on how Trustworthy is transforming the way families store and share vital documents, moving far beyond the outdated confines of folders and spreadsheets. Together with our expert Patty Whatley, we journey through Nat's personal motivations that led to the birth of this innovative platform, offering families a peace of mind with a secure, collaborative system for managing essential information. From the intricacies of Medicaid applications to the everyday need for accessible personal records, discover how Trustworthy equips families to handle life's transitions with confidence.

Our conversation takes a deep dive into the world of digital security, unearthing how Trustworthy employs cutting-edge measures like encryption, tokenization, and third-party audits to safeguard sensitive information. Learn how AI, trained with synthetic documents, bolsters privacy while enhancing document recognition, ensuring your personal data remains protected. We delve into the societal shifts driving this digital transformation, emphasizing the increasing necessity for reliable digital backups in the face of natural disasters. Whether you're planning an estate or organizing family travel, this episode reveals how platforms like Trustworthy are pivotal in ensuring your family is always prepared and your crucial documents are always within reach.

Link to try out TrustWorthy: https://trustworthy.com/#via=patty

(This link is an affiliate link and we will make a small fee if you sign up using this link. You will pay no more than usual by using this link)

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Unlocking Estate Tax Secrets: Strategies to Minimize Your Tax Liability

Mr. Sonaar — Sat, 01 Feb 2025 16:00:00 +0000

This episode centers on understanding various types of taxes that impact individuals and families, including estate, gift, capital gains, and income taxes. The discussion provides valuable strategies for minimizing these tax burdens and emphasizes the importance of proactive financial planning.

• Overview of the four major types of taxes
• Insights on estate tax implications for most individuals
• Importance of yearly gift tax exemptions
• Explanation of capital gains tax and its effects on asset sales
• Strategies for managing income taxes effectively
• Call to action for proactive financial planning and consultations

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Navigating Northwest Arkansas Real Estate: Insights on Downsizing and Investing with Coley Bailey

Mr. Sonaar — Fri, 17 Jan 2025 15:00:00 +0000

We delve into the crucial topic of downsizing and its impact on aging homeowners, with expert insights from Coley Bailey of Lone Rock Realty. The conversation highlights current real estate trends, challenges seniors face, and the benefits of considering a condominium lifestyle.

• Overview of the aging housing market
• Real estate statistics for Northwest Arkansas in 2024
• Introduction of Medlin Park condominiums designed for seniors
• Features and amenities of condominium living
• Financial advantages of downsizing for retirement
• Signs indicating it's time to sell your home
• Offering both real estate services and resources for potential buyers
• Call for listeners to reach out for more information

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Estate Planning Essentials: Protecting Assets and Avoiding Probate

Mr. Sonaar — Sun, 05 Jan 2025 19:00:00 +0000

This episode focuses on the critical aspects of estate planning, highlighting the importance of avoiding probate for a smoother transition of assets. Key topics discussed include beneficiary designations, trusts, and the role of a knowledgeable attorney in navigating the estate planning landscape.

• Overview of what constitutes an estate
• Discussion of probate and its challenges
• Cost implications of probate for families
• Benefits of using beneficiary designations to avoid probate
• Limitations and risks associated with beneficiary designations
• Advantages of establishing a trust for asset protection
• Importance of having a knowledgeable attorney for estate planning
• Need for regular reviews of your estate plan
• Services offered by Generations Legal Group for legal assistance

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Unlocking the Secrets of Medicaid Planning and Asset Protection with Todd Whatley

Mr. Sonaar — Sun, 05 Jan 2025 18:00:00 +0000

Todd Whatley, Certified Elder Law Attorney with Generations Legal Group explains how Medicaid really is an option for almost everyone seeking to pay for long term care. This episode addresses the crucial topic of Medicaid planning and the misconceptions surrounding it. We discuss how proper planning can protect assets for long-term care, with a focus on understanding the rules of Medicaid to benefit families facing aging challenges.

• Understanding Medicaid and its application for long-term care
• Dispelling myths about wealth and Medicaid eligibility
• The importance of early planning for future care needs
• Strategies for married couples to protect assets
• Exempt assets that do not affect Medicaid eligibility
• The potential of irrevocable trusts in asset protection
• Real-life examples illustrating planning outcomes
• Emphasizing the role of expert guidance in navigating Medicaid rules
• The risks of waiting to plan and financial implications if delayed

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Mastering Modern Estate Planning: Updates, Strategies, and Avoiding Pitfalls

Mr. Sonaar — Mon, 16 Dec 2024 18:00:00 +0000

Is your estate plan up to date with your current life changes? Join me, Todd Whatley, as we navigate the complexities of modern estate planning, ensuring your assets are securely aligned with your future goals. This episode is your opportunity to master the art of estate planning by understanding the necessity of revisiting and updating your documents amidst changes in your relationships, health, and financial circumstances. You'll gain insights into the potential pitfalls of an outdated plan and learn why having a professional review is crucial for avoiding unintended consequences. Our office's malpractice policy and trust amendment practices underscore this importance, highlighting the need for a thorough update while preserving the integrity of your existing trust.

We'll unlock strategic tips to safeguard your legacy for future generations. Discover why leaving money outright to children can be fraught with risks and the benefits of setting up trusts with specific terms. With upcoming changes to the estate tax exemption in 2026, I'll emphasize the importance of proactive updates to mitigate tax liabilities. Beyond financials, we'll discuss reviewing healthcare decisions, keeping appointed agents in line with your current wishes, and the essential steps of conducting an inventory check and updating beneficiaries. Engaging family members and setting deadlines are key strategies for clarity in planning, leading to peace of mind and the celebration of a well-rounded estate plan. Don't miss the announcement of our upcoming series addressing 100 common estate planning questions, designed to equip you with all you need for future planning decisions.

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Navigating Medicare Changes: Expert Insights and Strategies for 2025

Mr. Sonaar — Sat, 09 Nov 2024 20:00:00 +0000

Unlock the critical insights into Medicare changes with our expert guest, Paul Livingston, a seasoned registered nurse turned Medicare advisor. Gain the knowledge you need to confidently navigate Medicare plans and avoid the pitfalls of misinformation. Understand the pivotal role of independent brokers in tailoring healthcare options to your specific needs, especially when considering the region-specific nature of Medicare Advantage plans and the impact of individual prescription requirements. For seniors living on limited incomes, staying informed about major Medicare changes is crucial. Paul offers guidance on strategies to manage these shifts effectively and ensure your health and financial well-being are prioritized.

Discover the practical routes available for handling medication costs without the stress of overwhelming initial payments. We explore federal programs that spread expenses throughout the year, making healthcare more manageable. Learn about the flexibility offered during the trial look period when transitioning between traditional Medicare with a Medigap plan and Medicare Advantage. However, understand the challenges that arise when attempting to revert back to a Medicare supplement, particularly for those managing chronic health conditions. This episode promises to equip you with the tools to make informed decisions regarding your Medicare options, empowering you to navigate this complex landscape with greater confidence.

Call Paul Livingston at 479-347-9920

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Adapting Memorial Traditions for Modern Times

Mr. Sonaar — Sat, 09 Nov 2024 20:00:00 +0000

Discover the fascinating transformations occurring in the funeral industry with our special guest, Christie Page from Dignity Memorial, North America's largest funeral provider. Uncover why more families are choosing cremation over traditional burials and how the mobility of modern life is reshaping final arrangements. Christie shares how Dignity Memorial's national plan transferability offers unprecedented flexibility and financial assurance for families, ensuring that your plans can follow you across 2,000 locations. This episode provides a rare glimpse into the innovative solutions being crafted to meet the evolving needs of families today.

We also explore groundbreaking alternatives like green burials and water cremation, even though they’re not yet available in Arkansas. Understand the importance of planning ahead and how pre-arranged plans can significantly reduce the emotional and financial stress on loved ones. From direct cremations at $2,800 to elaborate funerals averaging $10,000, we break down the costs and explore the personalized planning guides offered by Dignity Memorial to perfectly align every detail with your wishes. Whether you're contemplating your own arrangements or simply seeking to understand the shifting customs in memorial practices, this episode is packed with insights that promise to enlighten and inform.

Christie's number: 479-957-0102

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Epi 95 How Should I be Paying Mom’s Bills

Mr. Sonaar — Wed, 26 Apr 2023 21:00:00 +0000

Today Sara and Todd talk about the way you SHOULD be paying mom and dad's bills . If you are helping mom and dad out by picking some things up at the store for them, you are probably doing what makes sense. However, you are probably doing it wrong!!

Todd and Sara walk you though this seemingly innocent process to show you how it can cause problems with the Medicaid application and it can possibly cost you, the child, lots of extra money to cover this innocent mistake.

If you are caring for a loved one, and buying stuff for them, you have to listen to this episode.

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Epi 94 What are some of the Joys of Aging?

Mr. Sonaar — Wed, 19 Apr 2023 11:00:00 +0000

Today Sara and Todd have a little fun. It's been a little depressing lately so they decide to talk about the things that can bring joy as you age. Anything from a lack of filter so you can say pretty much anything you want to volunteering to make a difference to a child or non-profit. There are many ways to have joy and bring joy to others.

Listen today and hopefully get and give a little bit of joy.

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Epi 93 Does My Revocable Living Trust Protect Me from Medicaid?

Mr. Sonaar — Wed, 12 Apr 2023 11:00:00 +0000

Today Sara and Todd talk about a very common misconception that people have about their Revocable Living Trust; does it protect me from Medicaid. The short answer is "no" but there's more to it than that and also, is it the end of the world if it doesn't? Again, the answer is "no".

Today they talk about why the RLT doesn't work, what does work and what to do if you don't qualify. It's a quicker episode with lots of good information.

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Epi 92 Why is it So Important to Plan Ahead?

Mr. Sonaar — Wed, 05 Apr 2023 11:00:00 +0000

Today Sara and Todd talk about a struggle they have with potential clients every day. Getting people to finally take the steps to get their estate plan in order is so critically important. Today Todd and Sara talk about the reasons it's necessary to do your planning now.

Not planning is always more expensive and limits the actions you can take to protect your estate. It also put the decisions into the hands of stranger who doesn't know your situation at all. And it's not just so much protecting the estate, it's peace of mind knowing your wishes are in place.

Listen today as Sara and Todd help you know that you need to plan and give you some help in getting an aging loved one to plan. It's a great show today.

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Epi 91 What to Do If a Loved One Is Being Abused

Mr. Sonaar — Wed, 15 Mar 2023 11:00:00 +0000

Sara and Todd jump into a really heavy subject today, Elder Abuse. This topic is hard to digest but it is there. They have seen it in Todd's Elder Law Practice a number of times in the last few weeks and it's something that needs to be addressed.

In this episode, they discuss the different types of abuse and how to recognize it and then what to do when you see abuse. There are things you need to look for and there are things you can do when you see it.

Listen to this episode and share with friends to help a senior that may be being abused.

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Epi 90 The VA Benefits Update 2023

Mr. Sonaar — Wed, 22 Feb 2023 12:00:00 +0000

Today, Todd and Sara cover a topic they've covered before but with recent updates. We encourage you that if you are a Veteran or especially if you know a Veteran (or the widow of a Veteran) needing help getting the care they need, you have to listen to this benefit.

Today we discuss the assets limits and the amounts of monthly benefits that a Veteran or their spouse can get. Please listen and share with a veteran friend.

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Epi 89 What if my Income is too High to Qualify for Medicaid? How do I pay for the Nursing Home?

Mr. Sonaar — Wed, 01 Feb 2023 12:00:00 +0000

We get this question all the time. People are told "your income is too high to qualify for Medicaid". However, their income is WAY less than what it takes to pay for the nursing home. Some States have what is called an "Income Cap" which means there is a maximum amount that you can make. However, that limit is much under the amount that facilities cost.

Therefore, you have to jump through some hoops to qualify. That "hoop" is commonly called a Miller Trust. Today, Todd and Sara talk about the Miller Trust and how you can create it and still qualify for Medicaid even if you have a higher income than allowed.

*Note: Not every State has an income cap so don't be surprised if you have never heard of this.

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Epi 88 Can I pay a Family Member to Care for a Loved One.

Mr. Sonaar — Wed, 25 Jan 2023 20:00:00 +0000

Today Todd and Sara tackle a very common question and issue causing problems with aging families. It makes sense to pay for a family member (child or grandchild) to get paid to care for an aging loved one. It makes sense to you but not to the Medicaid agency when you need to apply for Medicaid.

Today we discuss how to make this work which takes PRE PLANNING. You have to do this on the front end and not the end. We talk about how to make this clear to Medicaid that the checks to the caregiver was not a gift.

Knowing this information will save you a lot of trouble when it comes time to apply and could save you in attorney's fees when the attorney goes to apply for Medicaid for you. Listen and learn

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Epi 87 Where Do I find Help when Placing a Loved One in Long Term Care?

Mr. Sonaar — Wed, 18 Jan 2023 12:00:00 +0000

Today, Sara shares with us her real expertise of working with seniors and their families when it comes to deciding IF someone needs a higher level of care and then HOW to go about it.

You may not be able to hire Sara but there are people near you that can probably do what Sara does. By listening to today's podcast you will know what should happen and know what questions to ask. Hopefully, you will learn when it needs to happen and how to make it happen with the best possible outcome.

Listen today as Sara and Todd help answer a huge question, How do I find help when placing a loved one.

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Epi 86 How Do I Help a Loved one Transition to a Higher Level of Care?

Mr. Sonaar — Wed, 04 Jan 2023 12:00:00 +0000

Today, Sara and Todd talk about one the harder things they deal with in their work. They see families have to transition from where they are now to a higher level of care such as assisted living or a nursing home.

That is a hard process for everyone involved. Sara is directly involved in helping families do this every day. Today, she talks about the process and gives you steps to take to make the process as easy as possible. Some of her advice is contrary to what you would think but she knows directly how to do this and you will learn much from her experience.

Join us today as we answer the question, How do I help a loved one transition to a higher level of care.

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Epi 85 How Do I Preserve Sibling Relationships While Caregiving?

Mr. Sonaar — Wed, 14 Dec 2022 12:00:00 +0000

Today Sara and Todd talk about the issue of a child caring for a parent while there are siblings not able to step in and care. This can be the cause of significant about of stress and the loss of lifelong good relationships.

Our episode today brings up questions and topics you need to discuss and how to work through some of the problems that will inevitably arise. Although Todd and Sara are essentially only children, both of them have years of experience working with families through these issues.

Call your sibling and have them listen to today's episode.

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Epi 84 Where Else Can I Get Information From You Guys?

Mr. Sonaar — Wed, 30 Nov 2022 12:00:00 +0000

Today Todd and Sara talk about their radio show and their FaceBook Live event they do every week. If you ever wanted to see what Todd and Sara look like, FaceBook is the place to do that.

Every Wednesday morning at 9:00 Central time, they do a radio show that airs live in Northwest Arkansas and surrounding areas. You can listen to that radio show on your computer at www.KURM.net, just click on the "listen live" button.

Also, if you are on FaceBook, you can watch and listen to them live AND you can go back and see previous shows. In addition, during the FB live event, you can ask questions that we will see on the show and answer.

We would LOVE for you to join us on FaceBook so listen to this podcast and learn what you are missing.

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Epi 83 What is a Good Free Resource to learn what I Need to Know?

Mr. Sonaar — Wed, 23 Nov 2022 12:00:00 +0000

Sara and Todd today discuss a great resource for our listeners to help them quickly learn what we have been talking about. Todd's office has a really nice magazine-style resource that they give out to the public. It talks about the unique estate planning rules for seniors, Powers of Attorney, Medicaid, Medicare and VA.

We encourage you to let Todd and Sara send you this resource. Listen today to learn about this and how to get it in your hands.

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Epi 82 What Role does Mental Health Play in Caregiving?

Mr. Sonaar — Wed, 16 Nov 2022 12:00:00 +0000

Today Todd and Sara talk about the caregiver again. The caregiver has a very difficult role and it's important for them to have good mental health. Today's topic is to show you signs of issues and how to get the help you need so that you can continue to care for your loved one.

Sara and Todd also talk about how to get the help you need and much of it for free. Join us today if you're stressed out as a caregiver or know someone who is. We hope this episode helps.

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Epi 81 Is It Too Late to Apply for Medicaid

Mr. Sonaar — Wed, 02 Nov 2022 13:00:00 +0000

Today we address a common question we get in the office. People think that different things happen then it's too late. It's never too late but you don't have to wait until you are broke in order to qualify,

The Medicaid rules are quite generous if you know what to do with the rules. Today we talk about different situations and how you can apply for Medicaid to get the care you need without going broke. Today's episode is quick and to the point and can help you or someone you know literally save a large portion of their estate if not their whole estate. Please join Sara and Todd today.

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Epi. 80 What you Need to Do When you go Visit Aging Loved Ones

Mr. Sonaar — Wed, 19 Oct 2022 11:00:00 +0000

The Holidays are a time that we visit family. If your trip is going to see an aging family member, our episode will help you look for signs of trouble. Phone calls throughout the year are great, but you may be missing things that are going on.

Today, Sara and Todd will walk you through some very practical things you can do while at an aging loved one's home to see how things are going. They talk about looking at the car, the refrigerator, floors and different things around the house.

They also talk about topics to discuss. Yes, it may be difficult but it's conversations that you really do need to have to make sure things are being handled.

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Epi 79 What are the 2 MOST Important Things a Senior Should Do?

Mr. Sonaar — Wed, 12 Oct 2022 11:00:00 +0000

Today, Todd and Sara discuss the 2 simple things you can do to save lots of money and reduce lots of stress. Doing these two things will bring you tremendous peace of mind. We have seen in thousands of clients that doing these two things will take care of LOTS of other problems.

It's a shorter podcast so please listen and share this with your friends and family.

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Epi 78 What is the Future of Medicine for Seniors

Mr. Sonaar — Wed, 28 Sep 2022 11:00:00 +0000

Today Todd and Sara have a very special guest, Dr. Harry Lizarte who is a internal medicine doctor that focuses his practice on seeing Seniors in their home. He has some very strong feelings on how healthcare for Seniors should be and he is implementing some cutting edge technology for senior health.

If you have an aging loved one, you MUST listen to this episode. Dr. Lizarte will educate you on the needs of the seniors and how close of attention you need to keep on them to keep them healthy into their later years. This is a great show and you don't want to miss it.

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Epi 77 What Rights does a Nursing Home Resident Have?

Mr. Sonaar — Wed, 21 Sep 2022 11:00:00 +0000

On today's episode, Sara and Todd discuss the Federal Law that gives many rights to the resident of a Nursing Home. You probably don't know about most of these rights, but they are crucial to getting good care.

Sara, as a Licensed Nursing Home Administrator is adamant that our listeners know what they should be getting for their loved one in a Nursing Home. Join Todd and Sara today as they discuss each of these rights and what you should do to really help your loved one.

Here is a download of the Federal Nursing Home Resident's Rights: https://downloads.cms.gov/medicare/your_resident_rights_and_protections_section.pdf

Don't forget about Sara and Todd's Book on How to get the Right Care for Your Loved One: https://answersonagingpodcast.com/we-wrote-a-book/

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Epi 76 What is the Latest with Alzheimer’s

Mr. Sonaar — Wed, 14 Sep 2022 11:00:00 +0000

Todd is just back from a conference where one of the speakers was a Neurologist from University of Kentucky Alzheimer's Center. He brought the latest information and Todd along with Sara bring you the latest findings and possible prevention for this horrible disease.

Join us to day and share this with someone who is interested in dementia and Alzheimer's.

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Epi 75 Why Todd Hates Wills (not people named Will, but Last Will and Testaments)

Mr. Sonaar — Wed, 07 Sep 2022 11:00:00 +0000

This is one of Todd's soap boxes in the legal profession. As an Elder Law Attorney, seniors should not rely on a Last Will and Testament as their sole estate planning tool. There is no need for one. And, no attorney who advocates for this has been able to explain how relying on a Will as your estate planning tool is in the client's best interest.

Join Sara and Todd today and they discuss Wills and why you need something different. One of the alternatives is actually free and it's what the vast majority of Todd's clients use.

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Epi 74 How Do I Narrow Down the Search for a New Nursing Home?

Mr. Sonaar — Wed, 31 Aug 2022 11:00:00 +0000

Today, Sara and Todd talk about a chapter in their new book. They focus on narrowing down the large number of facilities that you could choose from and looking at the best 2-3 facilities. It's a daunting process but today's episode helps you step by step.

Don't forget about their new book. If you want the whole process in one place from very beginning (Do I even need to start this process?) to the final stages (What if there is a problem once you are there?), you need to get their new book.

Here are links:
The physical book: https://elderlawcoach.samcart.com/products/conquering-the-maze-of-long-term-care-physical-copy

The Download Book: https://elderlawcoach.samcart.com/products/nursing-home-book

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Bonus – We have the physical version of our book now.

Mr. Sonaar — Tue, 30 Aug 2022 21:00:00 +0000

Here is a link to the physical book: https://elderlawcoach.samcart.com/products/conquering-the-maze-of-long-term-care-physical-copy

Here is a link to the download copy: https://elderlawcoach.samcart.com/products/nursing-home-book

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Epi 73 What are some common questions people ask about Aging?

Mr. Sonaar — Wed, 24 Aug 2022 11:00:00 +0000

Today is part II of our common questions series. Todd does a Q and A twice a month where people ask lots of questions. Sara writes down those questions and we bring them to the Podcast.

So, we are pretty sure we are going to answer a question that you have about aging in today's Podcast. If we don't answer a burning question you have, then feel free to drop us a comment and we will do our best to answer your question in a future show.

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Epi 72 What the Agent under a Power of Attorney Needs to Know

Mr. Sonaar — Wed, 10 Aug 2022 11:00:00 +0000

We talk constantly about Powers of Attorney since we think they are THE most important document you can do. However, we have not talked about some of the concerns that the Agent my have in serving in that role. Today Sara and Todd talk about the concerns that an Agent may have and some points that the Agent needs to know before agreeing to serve as the agent.

If you listen to us, you know the importance of the Power of Attorney. Today we help you and your agent know what you and they are getting into and knowing it's probably going to be OK to do this document and protect you and your estate.

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Epi 71 What Questions Should I Ask the Nursing Home

Mr. Sonaar — Wed, 03 Aug 2022 11:00:00 +0000

When trying to figure out which long term care facility to placed a loved one, there are a TON of things to do. Today, Todd and Sara discuss a few of the questions you need to ask when interviewing the facility.

These are but a few of the questions that need to be asked. You can get the full list of questions from Sara and Todd's new book Conquering the Maze of Finding Long Term Care for Your Loved One. In their book, they discuss all aspects of this process but there are 20 questions you should ask when trying to decide if this is the right place for your loved one.

Join us today as we help you figure out this maze. To get a digital copy of the book, go to this link: www.AnswersOnAgingPodcast.com/maze.

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Epi 70 What to do After the Death of a Loved One

Mr. Sonaar — Wed, 27 Jul 2022 11:00:00 +0000

Losing a loved one is really tough. There's emotions, tensions and families but then there are things that need to be done. But what? Where do you begin?

Todd and Sara tackle these questions today and teach you first, that nothing really needs to be done immediately. Take some time to grieve and time with family and pay your respects. Those bill collectors can wait and really nothing needs to be done before the funeral is over.

Today we give you a check list of things that need to be done to wrap up the estate of a loved immediately and whether you need to see an attorney or not. Today's show is a little depressing but it can really help out during such a hard time. Plus, Todd "kick's the can" accidentally to add a little bit of humor.

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Epi 69 Is there a Resource to Help me find a Nursing Home for my Loved One

Mr. Sonaar — Wed, 20 Jul 2022 11:00:00 +0000

Today, Todd and Sara announce their new book Conquering the Maze of Finding Long Term Care for Your Loved One. This is a quick resource that you will find tremendously helpful if you or someone you know is in the early stages of trying to find a nursing home.

Finding a nursing home can be a daunting process. When do you start looking? Where do you start? How do I narrow the choices down? What do I ask while I'm there? How do I pay for it? What if there's a problem with the care my loved one is getting? Those, and other, questions are all answered in this book.

Join us today to hear about their newest project and how to get it. You can get it at: www.AnswersOnAgingPodcast.com/maze

Let us know what you think.

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Epi 68 Frequently Asked Questions

Mr. Sonaar — Wed, 13 Jul 2022 11:00:00 +0000

Today Todd and Sara compile a list of questions they get frequently from real live people in public settings. Todd does a "Coffee with a Pro" 3 times a month and he gets the same questions pretty much every time. So, Sara and Todd thought that you, our faithful followers, might have the same questions.

They discuss putting your kids on your home and bank accounts, Powers of Attorneys, etc.

This is version 1 of probably many.

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Frequently Asked Questions Part 2

Mr. Sonaar — Sat, 09 Jul 2022 19:00:00 +0000

Today, Sara and Todd bring back the very popular Frequently Ask Question format to answer real life questions that people bring up in events.

Today they answer questions that are important to you.

Join us to day for a fun episode that really does provide Answers on Aging.

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Epi 67 How can I prevent my loved one from being Scammed. Mike and Kim from Parenting Aging Parents

Mr. Sonaar — Wed, 06 Jul 2022 11:00:00 +0000

We are all subject to being scammed. Both Todd and Sara have fallen for some of them and they know what to look for. Seniors tend to be very trusting of every phone call and every email. There are billions of dollars being taken from our loved ones by fraudulent tactics.

Today we have our friend from Parenting Aging Parents back with us to talk about scams common with seniors and even with their parents. Their FaceBook page Parenting Aging Parents gets many complaints about scams and they are very knowledgeable and are here to help us talk about how to prevent you and and your aging loved ones from being scammed.

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Epi 66 How Do I Age with Purpose?

Mr. Sonaar — Wed, 29 Jun 2022 11:00:00 +0000

Today we have back our favorite Occupational Therapist Heidi Hunyh announcing her new home program to help seniors age with purpose at home so they can get back to a fulfilled life. Join Sara and Todd as they talk to Heidi about this amazing program.

If you or a loved one is having a hard time getting back to a full life after Covid or after another type of Medical event, you really should join us today to get some great pointers from Heidi.

Heidi's website is www.WeAgeWithPurpose.com.

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Epi 65 Todd and Sara’s Soapboxes Part 1

Mr. Sonaar — Wed, 22 Jun 2022 11:00:00 +0000

Todd and Sara (mainly Todd) have some soapbox issues that deserve to be discussed. Each topic doesn't require a whole podcast episode. We talk about issues of hiring an attorney, dementia tips, respecting elders and even driving tips for everyone (especially millennial females)

It's a fun episode where Todd and Sara blow off a little steam and we think you will enjoy it.

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Epi 64 What Do I Need to Know about Therapy for My Aging Loved One?

Mr. Sonaar — Wed, 15 Jun 2022 11:00:00 +0000

Therapy and Nursing is so very important for older people who have had some sort of illness or injury. Medicare gladly pays for therapy and nursing but there are some issues you need to be aware of when navigating through this.

Today Todd and Sara share their experience as a Therapist and Nursing Home Administrator working with clients and getting the therapy they need. There are some pitfalls that all patients and families of patients need to know.

Todd makes reference to a Federal lawsuit against Medicare and CMS and mentions a link you may need in order to get your loved one the care they need. Here is that link: https://www.cms.gov/CEnter/Special-Topic/Jimmo-Center

Please listen to this if you have a loved one getting skilled care and know your rights to getting them the care they need.

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Epi 63 What is Probate?

Mr. Sonaar — Thu, 09 Jun 2022 17:00:00 +0000

Probate is typically a bad process and something that can easily be avoided IF you get the right information. Today, Todd and Sara talk about what Probate is and how to avoid it.

This is one of Todd's soapboxes so be ready to hear him fuss a little about how this get's messed up by many attorneys. Pay attention to this one and it can save you a substantial amount of money on court and attorney fees.

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Epi 62 How Can I Prevent Falls? With Dr. Nathan Estrada, PT with Nymbl Science

Mr. Sonaar — Wed, 01 Jun 2022 11:00:00 +0000

We've done a previous podcast about how devastating falls can be to the older person. Today we have an expert on fall prevention, Dr. Nathan Estrada who is a Physical Therapist with Nymbl Science who produces a smart phone program to help you work on balance at home. The result are AMAZING in helping people feel better about moving and getting back to life.

Join Todd and Sara as they talk about the importance of balance and learn from Dr. Estrada about how to work on your balance and keep you up and going.

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Epi 61 What is the Five Year Lookback all About?

Mr. Sonaar — Tue, 24 May 2022 21:00:00 +0000

Today Todd and Sara discuss one of the most confused issues of dealing with Medicaid and transferring your property. There is a 5-year lookback but it's really not the horrible thing you may think it is.

This is a shorter episode addressing the issue of giving away assets and qualifying for Medicaid.

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Epi 60 An Interview with the Creators of ParentingAgingParents.com, Mike and Kim Barnes

Mr. Sonaar — Wed, 18 May 2022 11:00:00 +0000

Today we have a really cool couple who were busy professional journalist when their parents started needing help. Today we have the creators of Parenting Aging Parents, Mike and Kim Barnes.

Mike and Kim have a website ParentingAgingParents.com and a Facebook group by the same name. They have lived the life of parenting their aging parents and they have created a great resource for all people wanting information on aging parents.

Join us today for a great show and get to know some really nice people do really good things for seniors and their families.

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Epi 59 How Can an Occupational Therapist help Me at Home?

Mr. Sonaar — Wed, 11 May 2022 11:00:00 +0000

Today Todd and Sara have a guest. Heidi Hunyh (Win) is an Occupational Therapist from Washington State and she focuses on seniors and helping them be able to get back home and do well in their home.

Occupational Therapist are trained professionals that work with clients to help them be as independent as possible and many times stay home longer. Our guest today does a great job explaining this and she actually has some tools and lists that you can benefit from immediately. Please listen today and take advantage of her products she discusses.

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Epi 58 How to Get Good Care (Why Not to be a Grumpy Old Person)

Mr. Sonaar — Wed, 04 May 2022 11:00:00 +0000

Today Sara and Todd vent a little about care and how some people complain about not getting good care but they are also pretty grumpy. Today they talk about the benefits of being nice and how that really can effect the care you get from your doctor, your attorney or your food service at the restaurant.

Being nice really does pay off. Hopefully this will brighten your day and encourage you to be a little nicer to the world.

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Epi 57 How does a Single Person Qualify for Medicaid, and not lose everything?

Mr. Sonaar — Wed, 27 Apr 2022 11:00:00 +0000

Going to the nursing home doesn't mean that you lose everything. Surprisingly, a single person or the second spouse going into the nursing home is able to usually protect one-half of the assets, if not more!!!!!

However, you have to have a professional that really understands the process and knows how to work through the Medicaid rules in order to do this correctly. Join Todd and Sara as they explain how to protect assets when you need some very expensive care.

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Epi 56 How Does a Married Person Qualify for Medicaid (Will I lose everything)?

Mr. Sonaar — Wed, 20 Apr 2022 11:00:00 +0000

Today we focus on a specific situation where one spouse needs Medicaid. People really don't understand this issue and think they will lose everything or at best lose half. However, if a couple is under $1 million, NOT counting the home, they can probably qualify for Medicaid really quick and keep everything.

Also, DIVORCE IS NOT THE ANSWER. So many times, the advice given by non-Elder Law Attorneys is to get a divorce to keep half. Well, that is horrible advice. An Elder Law Attorney who knows what they are doing can protect most if not all of the assets within reason.

Listen today to learn how this really works.

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Epi 55 What would Surprise me about Elder Law and Nursing Homes?

Mr. Sonaar — Wed, 13 Apr 2022 11:00:00 +0000

Today we talk about a number of topics. We discuss things that may surprise you about Elder Law and then we talk about Nursing Homes.

Sara is the Nursing Home expert and as a former Administrator, she tells you some inside information about nursing homes that will surprise you. Todd, will tell you some things that you need to know about Elder Law and a few things that will probably surprise you.

It's a fun episode with Todd and Sara. Join us.

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Epi 54 What is Dementia?

Mr. Sonaar — Wed, 06 Apr 2022 11:00:00 +0000

People tend to get confused about the different types of Dementia. People ask if the person has Alzheimer's or do they have Dementia. Today Sara and Todd discuss the terminology and the different types of dementia.

Join them on this podcast where they discuss common questions people have about one of the most devastating conditions that effects many older people.

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Epi 53 How It Should Work, An interview with a Client, Mac Ewell

Mr. Sonaar — Wed, 23 Mar 2022 11:00:00 +0000

Today, we do a podcast interviewing a real life client of Todd's that went through all the processes with his parents. Our guest is Macintosh (Mac) Ewell. He hired Todd 16 years ago to help deal with his aging parents. He talks about the signs that there was a problem and how he sought help and got the work done that needed to be done. He also talks about how that work made this so much more bearable in light of all the things going on.

Listen today to see how this should work start to finish and what you should do now and what to expect as you progress through this process. We hope you enjoy.

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Epi 52 What is a Stroke? (in layman’s terms)

Mr. Sonaar — Wed, 16 Mar 2022 11:00:00 +0000

Today, Todd explains in very simply terms what a Stroke (CVA) is and gives you something to compare it to in its effect and it's treatment. If you every have wondered what exactly happened and why the treatment is as it is, we discuss it today.

Sara also talks about signs of a Stroke and how you can tell FAST if someone is having a stroke so you can get treatment quickly, which is super important. Join us today and learn something and have a little fun.

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Epi 51 How Do I Relate to Someone with Dementia?

Mr. Sonaar — Wed, 09 Mar 2022 12:00:00 +0000

One of the most difficult thing to do is spending time and helping someone with moderate to late stages of Dementia. Both Sara and Todd have years of experience working with people with a Dementia diagnosis. Join them today as they discuss some tips and tactics for caregivers to use when working with someone with Dementia.

These tips are great for you and for the person with Dementia. Both of you will appreciate you listening to this episode. Let Todd and Sara know what you think by sending them an email or message from the website www.AnswersOnAgingPodcast.com

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Epi 50 Why have a Bucket List?

Mr. Sonaar — Wed, 02 Mar 2022 12:00:00 +0000

So many people sort of "give up" as they age. However, this is the time to really do some stuff and it's time to have a list of things you want to do. Having a Bucket List is a great way to stay "in the game", motivated and driven to stay in shape, save money and do some really cool stuff.

Hopefully, in this episode Sara and Todd will encourage you to get out there and do some stuff (and PLEASE tell us when you do. We would love to have you on the podcast telling us about your bucket list adventure). So, this is a fun and hopefully inspirational episode that helps you continue with life and continue making some memories. Let's do it!!!!!

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Epi 49 What do I need to know about my Bank Accounts?

Mr. Sonaar — Wed, 23 Feb 2022 12:00:00 +0000

Bank Accounts. What can be wrong with how you set up a bank account? A WHOLE BUNCH OF STUFF.

Probably the most common mistake I see with senior planning is in their bank account. Many times because they did what the bank person told them to do. Please join us for this episode and learn about ways that you can mess up a bank account and how to do it correctly.

Join us today for a fun episode about how to correctly set up bank accounts to avoid much trouble and confusion.

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Epi 48 Can I gift money now or do I have to wait until I die?

Mr. Sonaar — Wed, 16 Feb 2022 12:00:00 +0000

This is a very common question among aging clients who are concerned about needing long term care and the dreaded "5 Year Lookback". Today we discuss this and show you ways that you can actually gift money now without causing major problems if you need care within the next 5 years.

It's another one of Todd's "soapboxes" that he has strong opinions about. Yep, another one!!!

Note: You may not want your kids or grandkids to listen to this one since I do show you how and encourage you to make gifts now so that they can enjoy what you give them but YOU get to see them enjoy it also. So, use this as you see fit but Sara and Todd hope you get some good information out of this episode.

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Epi 47 What Should I bring to the Elder Law Attorney initial meeting?

Mr. Sonaar — Wed, 09 Feb 2022 12:00:00 +0000

Elder Law is a unique field of the law. You've scheduled a meeting with the attorney and you think you should just show up? To have a good initial meeting, you need to bring some information that may surprise you. Today's episode discusses what you need to bring and why.

We want you to get the help you need and this episode will help you get your money's worth from that meeting. Join us as we discuss what information you should bring with you to the Elder Law Attorney meeting.

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Epi 46 Why should a Senior Choose an Elder Law Attorney

Mr. Sonaar — Wed, 02 Feb 2022 12:00:00 +0000

Today we talk about old mind sets versus new mindsets. The senior community clearly understands that in medicine they use specialist for specific medical issues. However, that "specialist mind set" has not gotten over to the legal issues yet.

Aging requires a specialist when it comes to legal issues. We discuss today the difference between a general practice attorney and an Elder Law Attorney. Join us here to see what the you could be missing out on or losing by not getting the right help.

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Epi 45 How can I prepare for Covid being Over

Mr. Sonaar — Wed, 26 Jan 2022 12:00:00 +0000

We get optimistic today. We are tired of Covid. We still know it's serious but it seems that the pandemic is easing and restrictions are being lifted. However, as an aging person, you probably shouldn't just jump out there like nothing has changed over the last two years.

There's some things you need to know and to do to prepare to get back out into the "Post-Covid" world, or the world now as we know it. Listen to this episode for yourself or for a loved one to make sure you are ready to get back out there and enjoy life "mostly" like we knew it before.

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Epi 44 What is Parkinson’s Disease and what is the Parkinson’s Foundation?

Mr. Sonaar — Wed, 19 Jan 2022 12:00:00 +0000

Today we interview John Lehr, CEO of the Parkinson's Foundation. Parkinson's disease is a tremendous issue with the aging population. Today we learn exactly what it is and what is being done to treat it and progression toward a cure.

Join us today to learn about Parkinson's Disease. It's a great and informative show today.

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Episode 43 What the Nursing Home isn’t telling you.

Mr. Sonaar — Wed, 12 Jan 2022 12:00:00 +0000

Today we branch out possibly upsetting the "apple cart". We are here for our listeners to help the aging population get the information they need. Many times, the need for a nursing home for a short term or long term is needed.

Today, we tell you some of the things that nursing homes won't tell you. Both Sara and Todd have worked in Nursing Homes and they know the behind the scenes stuff that the general public needs to know but usually doesn't.

Today's show will enlighten you to some things that could get your loved one more care or better care and keep you enlightened.

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Epi 42 What should I know about Late in Life Marriages

Mr. Sonaar — Wed, 05 Jan 2022 12:00:00 +0000

Today we touch on a hard but VERY important topic: Marriages later in life. This is fraught with all the good stuff like greed, love, betrayal, money, etc. Todd has met with couples before they got married and after learning all there is to know, decided to not get married. There are some major issues that you may or may not be aware of and need to know.

Join us on this episode as Sara and Todd delve into a deep subject that many people don't want to talk about.

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Epi 41 What are the Top Episodes of Listeners, Todd and Sara?

Mr. Sonaar — Wed, 29 Dec 2021 12:00:00 +0000

Since we are approaching 50 episodes total, we look back at the top episodes according to the number of downloads, which we assume is the listener favorites. We then talk about our favorite episodes and why we like them and why you should listen.

This episode could be a "Beginner's Guide" to the Answers on Aging Podcast and which episodes to listen to first.

Thanks for getting us to 50 episodes, and we are only jus beginning.

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Epi 40 What Not to Carry in your Wallet or Purse

Mr. Sonaar — Wed, 22 Dec 2021 12:00:00 +0000

Look at your wallet or purse. What if it were lost or stolen? What damage could be done? Today Sara and Todd discuss the things that really don't need to be with you all the time and the damage that can be done if you lose those items. Some items will surprise you.

It's a fun episode where we discuss one of those things that we rarely discuss but really should. If you know someone with a huge wallet (most older men) or a cram packed purse (most women) then send them this episode. Enjoy.

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Epi 39 How do I Avoid Scams during the Holidays (or anytime)?

Mr. Sonaar — Wed, 15 Dec 2021 12:00:00 +0000

Scammers are prevalent now days. We hate them but we REALLY hate them during the holidays. They seem to ramp up their activities during this time of year when people are generous and wanting to help others.

In today's episode, we teach you how to recognize a scam and hopefully how to avoid it. Join us today as Todd and Sara discuss common scams and how to avoid them. Share this with your friends to help protect them too.

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Epi 38 How do I Compare Nursing Homes?

Mr. Sonaar — Wed, 08 Dec 2021 12:00:00 +0000

Finding a good place for a loved one is tough. You can ask around to people you know who have done it or know someone who has done it and get their opinion. However, that is a very limited data set to draw from.

Thankfully, Medicare gathers lots of pertinent information from various sources to rate every nursing home out there. We teach you how to get that information and what the information means. Sara has very personal experience with this and does a great job of explaining what this information really means and how to use to get the best care for your loved one.

Please join Sara and Todd as they discuss the comparison tool for nursing homes.

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Epi 37 What if I want to Work after Retirement?

Mr. Sonaar — Wed, 01 Dec 2021 12:00:00 +0000

Today we address the job shortage and how seniors can help business and help themselves. Many seniors find retirement not to be what they expected. Many want to go to work but don't know how or where to begin or what to actually do.

We address the issues of working after "retirement" and give some great ideas on what to to and how to do it.

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Epi 36 How to File a Complaint against a Care Provider

Mr. Sonaar — Wed, 24 Nov 2021 12:00:00 +0000

Today we talk about when things don't go as planned with your care provider. People make mistakes and things happen. Rather than jumping in and making the situation worse, today Sara talks about how to go about bringing your complaints to the right people and working for a solution.

There are proper steps to take when there's a problem but most people don't know how to do it. Join us today to see what can be done to get the best care possible for your loved one.

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Episode 35 What are Cultural Differences in Estate Planning

Mr. Sonaar — Wed, 17 Nov 2021 12:00:00 +0000

Todd and Sara interview some really fun attorneys from Atlanta who happen to be black and who do Estate Planning and Elder Law. Having spent some time with them, we learned that there are some very stark differences in our practices while working with Caucasian and African American clients.

We have a fun discussion of our differences and similarities. It's a really fun episode with Nicola Richardson and Olivia Smith. Please join us.

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Epi 34 What is a Guardianship

Mr. Sonaar — Wed, 10 Nov 2021 12:00:00 +0000

Today we explore one of Todd's HOT TOPICS. That means it makes him hot (with frustration). We talk about the issues of a guardianship and actually why it should be the absolutely last resort when needed.

We talk about ways to avoid a guardianship (which is really easy and not that expensive). Join us today if you don't fully understand guardianships. PLEASE forward this episode to someone who's been told they need a guardianship for a loved one. You may actually save them a lifetime of expense and inconvenience.

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Epi. 33 What are your Top Ten Tips for Trusts?

Mr. Sonaar — Wed, 03 Nov 2021 11:00:00 +0000

Join us today as Todd talks about Trusts. There is huge amount of interest in Trusts and many people have them. The problem is most people don't fully understand their trust and don't really understand why they have a trust.

Todd gives the top 10 issues with Trusts and whether or not you really need a Trust. You will hear some information here you won't get from most other attorneys. You may actually learn that you can avoid Probate without the expense of a Trust. (Hey, a little secret – Todd's mom and Dad did NOT have a trust and he obviously he would have given them the best estate plan in the world. He did and it was NOT a trust)

Join us for this informative show and you will learn something, we're pretty sure.

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Bonus – Holiday Special, What Questions Should I ask my Aging Parents

Mr. Sonaar — Wed, 27 Oct 2021 11:00:00 +0000

We jump into the sensitive areas that aging parents and adult children really do need to discuss. In today's episode, we give you the questions you should ask and some pointers on how to start the conversation (blame it on us!!!).

Listen and share this episode with those you know who have aging parents and are concerned about their well being.

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Epi. 32 What are the ABC’s of Caregiving?

Mr. Sonaar — Wed, 20 Oct 2021 11:00:00 +0000

Today Sara and Todd talk about the fundamentals you need as a caregiver. Sara is in full-on "boy mom" which means lots of sports. She uses a sport analogy to bring home the idea that caregiving can be like a sport and you need to focus on the fundamentals for yourself as the caregiver and for the one being cared for.

You will get some great ideas and tips for caregiving and maintaining that role for the duration.

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Epi 31 How do I “Test Drive” a Nursing Home

Mr. Sonaar — Wed, 13 Oct 2021 11:00:00 +0000

Join us as Nursing Home Administrator Sara Scott tell us how to and why it's important to test drive a nursing home.

You don't have to go "all in" if you will start early. Take a break for yourself as a caregiver and try some places out. You don't have to stay there forever, you can stay a few days and see how you like it. Sort of like test driving a car.

Join us to learn from Sara how to get the best care you can for your loved one.

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Episode 30 Why Should I Choose “House of 3” for My Loved One?

Mr. Sonaar — Wed, 06 Oct 2021 11:00:00 +0000

We introduce a really cool long term care solution. If you want personalized service and a literal "home" atmosphere, you need to hear this episode.

We talk to the owner of a House of 3 residential community. If you are looking at needing care, you should definitely check this out and see if it's right for you.

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Epi 29 Do I have to pay Privately for the Nursing Home

Mr. Sonaar — Wed, 29 Sep 2021 05:00:00 +0000

Join us today for probably the most expensive question you have ever ask or will ask. People are surprised that many times they don't have to pay for the nursing home since the Medicaid rules are actually quite generous.

Join us today as we discuss how generous the rules are for a married couple and even for a single person who is in, or contemplating going in, a nursing home. We also discuss some of the incorrect stigmas that you may have about Medicaid and nursing homes.

Please join us and possibly it will save you or someone you know a very large part of their life savings.

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Epi 28 Should I move Mom in with Me or Should I move in with Mom?

Mr. Sonaar — Wed, 22 Sep 2021 11:00:00 +0000

This is a very common question Sara and Todd get frequently. There are lots of issues about moving a parent in with you (Episode 26 covers that very well) but there are some tips and techniques that can save a very large part of the estate when you need to a parent into your home or you decide to move in with your parent.

Join Sara and Todd as they discuss this very pertinent topic that comes up very frequently.

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Epi 27. How Do I Help my Out of State Parents

Mr. Sonaar — Wed, 15 Sep 2021 11:00:00 +0000

Sara found a guest who has done it right. He lives in Washington DC and his parents live in Florida. There was an incident with his mom and dealing with that realizes that his father has dementia. He then took the steps to handle the situation correctly and he tells us all about it.

Join us on this episode to learn first hand how it's done correctly.

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Epi 26 How Do I Prepare to Move in my Aging Parent?

Mr. Sonaar — Wed, 08 Sep 2021 11:00:00 +0000

Join us today for a very special episode where a friend of Todd's discusses moving his aging mother into he and his wife's home. You will be given some pointers to think about and probably a few things that you had not thought of.

It's a fun episode that will help prepare you for the big move of moving a parent in with you.

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Epi 25 – Signs of Unhealthy Aging

Mr. Sonaar — Wed, 01 Sep 2021 20:00:00 +0000

It's time to take an inventory of how you are doing, or how your aging loved one is doing. Join us today and learn what things you need to look for to see if you or someone you love is aging in an unhealthy way. Yes, this can be depressing but catching it early leads to better treatment!

You may be suffering from something that you think is "just aging" when it can actually be treated and corrected. So, listen in today as Todd and Sara discuss signs of unhealthy aging.

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Episode 24 Why Should I go see a Neuropsychologist?

Mr. Sonaar — Wed, 25 Aug 2021 11:00:00 +0000

We have a guest today, Dr. Gary Chambers a Neuropsychologist that both Todd and Sara have worked with over the years. He joins us today to talk about dementia and ADHD, which surprised both of us. Many times, the problem an adult is having may not be dementia but maybe undiagnosed ADHD.

Join us to learn about your brain and we are sure you will get a few good tips from today's episode.

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Episode 23: When can my loved one no longer sign documents?

Mr. Sonaar — Wed, 18 Aug 2021 11:00:00 +0000

We get controversial this week!! This is not a settled topic among attorneys but Todd has done the research on this. He has spoken to national audiences on this topic and get very mixed reviews from praise to scoffs.

Listen in and get the information you need to know that your loved can still make decisions themselves and can or cannot sign documents. (Plus, Todd tells a joke)

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Episode 22 How to (hopefully) Ensure Harmony when I Pass.

Mr. Sonaar — Fri, 13 Aug 2021 12:00:00 +0000

Join us today for 5 tips that will help ensure that your family will be as happy and harmonious as possible when you pass. This is a time when lots of things can happen and we will help as much as we can to make it go well.

Also, we have a new intro and outro. We are kind of proud of it.

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Epi 21 How Can I Spend Down for Medicaid (and not lose everything)?

Mr. Sonaar — Wed, 04 Aug 2021 11:00:00 +0000

Join Todd and Sara as they discuss one of THE most misunderstood issues of Medicaid: spend down. Also, there are many misconceptions about this issue and this information can literally help you save your entire estate when a spouse needs expensive care.

Please join us and learn how you can get the care you need and not lose everything.

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Episode 20 How do I fund my Trust

Mr. Sonaar — Wed, 28 Jul 2021 11:00:00 +0000

One of the biggest frustrations with families is that their loved one created a trust to avoid probate but then everything still goes through probate. The reason being, they forgot to fund the trust. Doing an estate plan is a total waste if you don't follow through with funding.

Hear Todd and Sara discuss why you need to fund a trust and how to fund a trust.

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Bonus #3 How did Todd and Sara become friends and Podcast Co-Hosts?

Mr. Sonaar — Wed, 21 Jul 2021 11:00:00 +0000

This is look into our past and how we met MANY years ago and how we have stayed friends and done lots of projects together, and even stayed friends to this date.

This is a fun and light episode that gives you a glimpse into Todd and Sara's life.

Share with us the story of you and your friend's life. We would love to hear it and may share it on future episodes.

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Episode 19 Why is it Important to Have Friendships as you Age?

Mr. Sonaar — Wed, 14 Jul 2021 11:00:00 +0000

To carry on our theme of the importance of staying connected, we talk about the importance of Friendships.

A good friend is fun but also crucial to your mental and physical health. Join us as we discussed ways to stay social, keep old friends and make new ones.

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Episode 18 Taxes (Gift and Capital Gains)

Mr. Sonaar — Wed, 07 Jul 2021 11:00:00 +0000

We "nerd out" today with this topic. However, we address probably the biggest issue that families are concerned about and ask questions in pretty much every meeting.

This is a shorter episode but we REALLY encourage you to listen because there's some important stuff in here that you probably don't understand and need to know. Let us know how we did.

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Episode 17 Why is laughter important as I age?

Mr. Sonaar — Wed, 30 Jun 2021 11:00:00 +0000

Today we do a lighthearted show on laughter.

Laughter has some amazing effects on the human body and mind. Listen today to get encouragement to lighten up and laugh. It really is good medicine.

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Episode 16 Why should go to a Dermatologist as I age?

Mr. Sonaar — Wed, 23 Jun 2021 11:00:00 +0000

Today we have a fun discussion with Dr. Eric Belin, Dermatologist and former Navy flight surgeon. It's a great show and you WILL learn something cool about your skin (and hair).

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Episode 15: How do I make a difficult conversation or situation easier? An interview with THE Conflict Resolution and Peacebuilding Expert, Dr. Charles Edward Davidson

Mr. Sonaar — Wed, 16 Jun 2021 11:00:00 +0000

Today we interview a PhD in Conflict Resolution, Join us to learn how to enter into hard situations when dealing with your senior loved one.

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Bonus Answering Your Questions 1

Mr. Sonaar — Wed, 09 Jun 2021 11:00:00 +0000

Today, we answer listeners specific questions (and they are probably your questions, also).

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Episode 14 Why I should be concerned about Falls

Mr. Sonaar — Wed, 02 Jun 2021 11:00:00 +0000

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Episode 13 -What questions do I need to ask when my loved one is in the Nursing Home?

Mr. Sonaar — Wed, 26 May 2021 21:00:00 +0000

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Episode 12 What is a Life Care Manager?

Mr. Sonaar — Thu, 20 May 2021 11:00:00 +0000

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Episode 10 Part 2, Hospice Physician

Mr. Sonaar — Wed, 05 May 2021 11:00:00 +0000

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Bonus Episode with Elizabeth Heiskell

Mr. Sonaar — Tue, 04 May 2021 11:00:00 +0000

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Episode 10 Part 1 Hospice from a Family perspective

Mr. Sonaar — Wed, 28 Apr 2021 13:00:00 +0000

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Episode 9 Part 3: Estate Planning Documents

Mr. Sonaar — Wed, 21 Apr 2021 11:00:00 +0000

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Episode 9 Part 2 Healthcare Documents

Mr. Sonaar — Wed, 14 Apr 2021 05:00:00 +0000

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Episode 9, Part 1 Financial Documents: Power of Attorney

Mr. Sonaar — Wed, 07 Apr 2021 05:00:00 +0000

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Episode 8 Is This Normal? Learning what is “normal vs abnormal” when it comes to the natural aging process.

Mr. Sonaar — Wed, 31 Mar 2021 11:00:00 +0000

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Episode 7 How to pay for care

Mr. Sonaar — Wed, 24 Mar 2021 11:00:00 +0000

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Episode 6 Part 4 of 4: When do I know it’s time for a lot more help? Understanding the differences between Nursing Homes, Dementia Units, and Hospice Services

Mr. Sonaar — Wed, 17 Mar 2021 11:00:00 +0000

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Episode 6 Part 3 of 4: When is it time for a little more help? All you need to know and understand about Assisted Living Communities

Mr. Sonaar — Wed, 10 Mar 2021 12:00:00 +0000

Subject Matter Expert Special Guest: Megan Cosgrove
meganc@meadowsinbentonville.com
479-586-8784

Understanding that Long Term Care is not JUST a Nursing Home is critically important when making decisions about alternative care options for you or your aging loved one.

This episode highlights the services offered, benefits, and important facts about how, why, and when to consider Assisted Living for the next chapter in your aging journey.

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Episode 6 Part 2 Home Care v. Home Health

Mr. Sonaar — Wed, 03 Mar 2021 12:00:00 +0000

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Episode 6 Part 1 Retirement Communities v. Independent Living

Mr. Sonaar — Wed, 24 Feb 2021 12:00:00 +0000

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Episode 5 What are the options and differences between levels of care?

Mr. Sonaar — Wed, 17 Feb 2021 12:00:00 +0000

This episode provides answers to the following questions (including but NOT limited to):

(For aging individuals) Why is it important for me to know about all the available options for care?

(For adult children or caregivers) How do I find out what options are available in my area?

What are the basic differences between each level of care?

How do I go about preparing for getting the appropriate services?

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Episode 4 Who Needs to Know about my Finances

Mr. Sonaar — Mon, 15 Feb 2021 12:00:00 +0000

Questions answered in this episode include (but NOT limited to):

(For aging individuals) Why should I share information about my finances?

(For adult children and caregivers) Why is it important to know about my aging loved ones finances?

With whom should I share my financial information?

How do I obtain financial information about my aging loved one?

What is the age difference between Todd and Sara? (BONUS!! )

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Episode 1 What is this show all about and who are the people behind the Podcast?!

Mr. Sonaar — Thu, 11 Feb 2021 00:00:00 +0000

Get to know us, (Todd Whatley and Sara Scott), and find out our purpose for bringing you this podcast and what makes us "qualified" to provide all the Answers on Aging!

We record episodes from Todd's home office-turned-studio located in Northwest Arkansas.

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Episode 3 – When is it time to step in? (Part 2 of 2)

Mr. Sonaar — Thu, 11 Feb 2021 00:00:00 +0000

Questions answered in this episode include (but NOT limited to):

(For aging individuals) How do I ask for help when I notice something more is going on?

(For adult children/caregivers) How do I step in once I have determined it is time to do so?

What is the best way to start these difficult conversations?

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Episode 2 When is it time to step-in? (Part 1 of 2)

Mr. Sonaar — Wed, 10 Feb 2021 23:00:00 +0000

Questions answered in this episode include (but are NOT limited to):

When do I step in or allow someone to help me?

Signs to look for to determine if help is warranted include:

Physical: unintentional weight change (typically loss, but can be gain); overall physical appearance, especially grooming/hygiene habits. Dexterity (ability to hold on to small objects, handwriting, eating, etc.), Changes in gait (ability to walk, keep balance)

Sleep patterns: Increased or decreased sleeping hours, location of sleep is also an indication of "something more", that should be looked in to further.

Cognitive Changes: Increased overall confusing, missing doctors appointments, driving safety/awareness deteriorates. Mis-managing medications is a key indicator to take special attention to. Repetitive question asking, increased forgetfulness.

Mood/Emotional Changes: Drastic personality/behavior changes (positive OR negative) can indicate that something may be going wrong.

Dementia vs Delirium

Ask your aging loved one to list you on the HIPAA release at doctor offices, and caregivers need to request to be notified upon any missed appointments.

Approach these noticed changes in a very delicate, sensitive, and efficient way.

Positive Signs: Ability to carry-out daily tasks, willingness to discuss current condition

www.care.com article "Aging Parents: Signs it's time to step in and help aging parents"

Understanding these "red flags" will help you identify when help is necessary AND prevent "crisis mode", and learn when and how to step-in and help your aging loved ones, OR ask for help from a family member, inform your physician and get the help within your reach.

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