Questions answered in this episode include (but are NOT limited to):
When do I step in or allow someone to help me?
Signs to look for to determine if help is warranted include:
Physical: unintentional weight change (typically loss, but can be gain); overall physical appearance, especially grooming/hygiene habits. Dexterity (ability to hold on to small objects, handwriting, eating, etc.), Changes in gait (ability to walk, keep balance)
Sleep patterns: Increased or decreased sleeping hours, location of sleep is also an indication of "something more", that should be looked in to further.
Cognitive Changes: Increased overall confusing, missing doctors appointments, driving safety/awareness deteriorates. Mis-managing medications is a key indicator to take special attention to. Repetitive question asking, increased forgetfulness.
Mood/Emotional Changes: Drastic personality/behavior changes (positive OR negative) can indicate that something may be going wrong.
Dementia vs Delirium
Ask your aging loved one to list you on the HIPAA release at doctor offices, and caregivers need to request to be notified upon any missed appointments.
Approach these noticed changes in a very delicate, sensitive, and efficient way.
Positive Signs: Ability to carry-out daily tasks, willingness to discuss current condition
www.care.com article "Aging Parents: Signs it's time to step in and help aging parents"
Understanding these "red flags" will help you identify when help is necessary AND prevent "crisis mode", and learn when and how to step-in and help your aging loved ones, OR ask for help from a family member, inform your physician and get the help within your reach.
Information to help you answer all of your questions about aging.